How to Talk to Your Child About Their Day at Daycare

For many parents, one of the first questions after pick-up is, “How was your day?” But if you’ve ever been met with a short “good” or silence, you’re not alone. Young children often struggle to express their experiences, especially after a busy day at daycare.

At Tomlin Prep Academy, we encourage strong parent-child communication because it helps children process their feelings, strengthens bonds, and gives parents insight into their child’s growth. Here are some helpful strategies to spark meaningful conversations with your little one.

1. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Instead of yes/no questions, try asking things like:

• “What was the best thing you played with today?”

• “Who did you sit with at lunch?”

• “What made you smile today?”

These prompts encourage your child to share details and reflect on their day.

2. Pick the Right Moment

Sometimes children need a little downtime after daycare before talking. Try bringing it up during dinner, bath time, or bedtime when they feel more relaxed and ready to share.

3. Use Their Artwork or Belongings as Starters

If your child brings home a drawing or project, ask them to tell you about it. This makes the conversation more natural and exciting for them.

4. Listen Without Rushing

When your child does open up, give them your full attention. Avoid interrupting or correcting details—just listen and let them feel heard.

5. Celebrate Small Details

Even if your child shares something small, like “I built a tower with blocks,” show enthusiasm. Positive reinforcement encourages them to share more over time.

Why These Conversations Matter

Talking about your child’s day helps you stay connected, supports emotional development, and reassures your child that you care about their experiences. Over time, these daily check-ins will become an important part of your routine.

🌟 At Tomlin Prep Academy, we believe communication between home and school is key to every child’s success. By working together, we help children feel safe, supported, and celebrated.

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